Everything you need to protect your child online

Hiding the screen or switching apps when you come near

A sudden change in device behaviour — especially secretive — is one of the strongest indicators that something needs a conversation.

New gifts, money, or items you can't explain

Could indicate an online relationship being developed through grooming — gifts are a common early stage tactic.

Withdrawal, anxiety, or mood changes after being online

Cyberbullying, harmful content, or distressing online relationships commonly cause this pattern — online, then offline distress.

Avoiding school or social situations they previously enjoyed

Cyberbullying often bleeds into real life — the person being bullied online may dread seeing those people in person.

Talking about a new "friend" you've never heard of

Online friendships aren't inherently dangerous, but unknown contacts — particularly adults — warrant a gentle, curious conversation.

Being online very late at night or losing sleep

Often linked to gaming addiction, social comparison anxiety, or being in contact with someone they're hiding from you.

Disproportionate distress when devices are taken away

Beyond typical frustration — extreme distress can indicate dependency or an active conversation they feel they can't interrupt.

Becoming very secretive about who they're talking to

Some privacy is healthy and normal. Intense secrecy about specific contacts — particularly new ones — is worth exploring.